A Country Music Conversation, Day 7: “Even the Man in the Moon is Crying” to “Follow Your Arrow”

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Day 7 features tracks from Mark Collie, Terri Clark, Reba McEntire, Pirates of the Mississippi, and Kacey Musgraves.


“Even the Man in the Moon is Crying”
Mark Collie

Written by Mark Collie and Don Cook

Mark Collie had the biggest hit of his career here, finally garnering him a top ten hit. I don’t remember loving the song at the time that it came out, but now it brings back waves of nostalgia as one of the songs that was in heavy rotation on CMT and on the radio when I was really getting into country music. It holds up very well today.

Other Favorites: “‘She’s Never Coming Back,” “Hard Lovin’ Woman,” “It is No Secret”


“Every Time I Cry”
Terri Clark

Written by Bob Regan and Karen Staley

Terri Clark is at her best when she combines strength and vulnerability on the same track. I think it’s the fact that she can have both a growl and a teardrop in her voice. I love this song, which chronicles the back-and-forth of a destructive, unhealthy relationship with clear eyes and resilience. The accompanying video does a great job of bringing the song’s underlying meanings to the surface.

Other Favorites: “I Cheated on You,” “Three Mississippi,” “I Just Wanna Be Mad”


“The Fear of Being Alone”
Reba McEntire

Written by Walt Aldridge and Bruce Miller

What If its You was Reba McEntire’s first post-Shania Twain album, and it helped her reassert her place in the country music landscape, leaving the heartbreak diva image behind for a refreshingly adult, intelligent approach. This is one of the smartest songs she ever recorded, and the crisp production, courtesy of her road band, still sounds vibrant today.

Other Favorites: “Consider Me Gone,” “The Greatest Man I Never Knew,” “One Promise Too Late”


“Feed Jake”
Pirates of the Mississippi

Written by Danny “Bear” Mayo

“Feed Jake” takes the old stereotype about country songs and turns it on its head. Yes, he’s singing about his dog in the chorus. But the verses are pointed social commentary, and a plea for tolerance and understanding that was way ahead of its time.

Other Favorites: “A Street Man Named Desire,” “Dream You”


“Follow Your Arrow”
Kacey Musgraves

Written by Brandy Clark, Shane McAnally, and Kacey Musgraves

And by virtue of alphabetical order, the next song is our modern day equivalent of “Feed Jake,” which radio was even more resistant to, but that country consumers (and CMA voters) embraced. The progressive elements of the song got all of the attention, but note that she’s also speaking up for those who don’t drink, don’t smoke, save themselves for marriage, and sit in the front row of church every Sunday. I’ve always been lukewarm about “I Hope You Dance” because sometimes it takes more courage to sit it out while everyone else is dancing, if that’s what you want to do. “Follow Your Arrow” understands that either choice is fine, and since everyone is judgmental anyway, you’re better off following your own heart instead of trying to please others.

Other Favorites: “Merry ‘Go Round,” “Biscuits,” “Cup of Tea”

Up Next: Day 8: “For the Good Times” to “He Stopped Loving Her Today”


  1. I love all five of these songs.

    For other favorites by some of these artists I would recommend checking out:

    Mark Collie – any of the other three singles from his self titled album: Born to Love You, Shame, Shame, Shame or Something’s Gonna Change Her Mind

    Terri Clark – No Fear, Easy from Now On, Poor, Poor Pitiful Me

    Reba – My favorite artist could be a different answer depending on the day, but it is usually Dolly, Reba, Madonna or maybe the Dixie Chicks. “Fancy” is my all time favorite country song. Other favorites by Reba are The Night the Lights Went Out in Georgia, I’m Gonna Take That Mountain, What If It’s You, Walk On, They Asked About You… so many more. I pretty much wore out every album she released from 1987’s The Last One to Know through 1996’s What If It’s You.

  2. I like your comments about the “Feed Jake” verses. Great song. And I remember “Now I lay me down to sleep …” from when I was a little kid.

    Favorite Terri Clark songs:
    “You Tell Me” w Johnny Reid
    “Girls Lie too”
    “You’re Easy on the Eyes”
    “Everytime I Cry”
    I have tickets to see Terri tuesday at the Nashville City Winery.

    Kacey Musgraves doesn’t do much for me but every time I hear “Merry Go ‘Round”, written by Kacey, Shane McAnally & Josh Osborne, I think of Tracy Lawrence:
    Kacey’s song:
    ‘Cause mama’s hooked on Mary Kay.
    Brother’s hooked on Mary Jane.
    Daddy’s hooked on Mary two doors down.

    Tracy Lawrence’s “Time Marches On”, a 1996 single written by Bobby Braddock:

    Sister’s using rouge and clear complexion soap
    Brother’s wearing beads and he smokes a lot of dope
    Momma is depressed barely makes a sound
    daddy’s got a girlfriend in another town

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